THe Good, The Bad and The Ugly

its not the good and the bad... its not very good , good and bad ... or v.good, good, bad and very bad... .
It is interesting why this term came into the existence... i dont know abt any of the historical context , but..  i believe its one's perspective, its the way when one sees things it makes sense to him.

So, why " the good , the bad and the ugly" ? Firstly, i would say that the first two terms are different from the third one. in other words, the good and the bad makes a kind of group while the third one is separate.
Here it goes: In our normal way of lives, we goes through many difficulties. i would say its not all the time painful, but its hard. We have our personal fears, our imperfections and then our interactions with other people, who are also suffering. Even if by perseverance u manage to clear all those, u still can fall. First through other people who want to hurt you and at times.... simply through bad luck., if nothing else( its most painful, if its the later, since u dont know what to do).    i SAID U CAN FALL, NOT U WILL :)

But allll of  these, i say this because i think the above is mighty lot more than simply words and thoughts, ... so alll of this, is mine or yours or a person's own. There are times when u see things that are so out of place or so rotten, that u say to urself that i dont want to make it a part of my universe. The moment u see them , u understand the difference, in that moment itself, between what u thought was ugly and what really is. You consciously make that decision and say to yourself that very clearly. You might accept the bad, as a kind of punishment for the things u did wrong.. u might say that u deserve that suffering for urself and its right in a way, but u will never accept that thing for the ugly.
So what is the good , th bad  and the ugly? The good, are all the little things that makes us smile and which we want to store so securely that at times, we even forget it is there. The Bad is the daily life, which we are still trying  to get accustomed to, the daily things which we want to go in certain way but doesnt and the things which we know is important but dont have time for. The Ugly , it is that bad that u cant handle or control. It is the things that if u thought really really seriously u know, u should protect urself and ur family from.

The funny thing however, is yesterday's ugly is today's bad  and this might continue as i move forward in life... But the spirit of standing still, the spirit of taking the brunt of the bad, fearing the ugly and smiling at the good things, although its getting fader and fader day by  day, is something that i think is Human.

P.S. Life is mostly not fair. The number of times, it makes sense to you, almost equal number of times, it WONT. Either curse the life or Enjoy the dilemma. Choice is and always have been yours.

14/2/10---- 6.15am----Base Camp

Hey!! Good Morning to the world... How are ya, everyone??? i know u didnt expected me to be here at 6.15 am, (in fact i, myself is grinning)... today is the exam day,haha... I m having  tea and maggi... and at this hour it is amazing... it feels like going out on adventure..
Last night, i didnt sleep very well... and thats one of the reasons too that im up early..
the major reason im grinning is that i know this cud be the only time of the day when im doing this... Who had seen the future right..., all i know is this moment is amazing and it wont come back.... and everything else i have resigned to the hands of God...( may sound a little stereotypical, but thats the way it should be, man)...

The weather is amazing too.
U have a great day ahead... i will try to. ... ( now is th time for action.. otherwise i wud be late.. :))
see ya!!

P.S. Happy Valentine's Day!!

Dark Blue Night........

Life....  there have a number of ways of expressing it. I myself do that many times. Yes, its baffling.
Here is one more piece of wisdom...  to me( smiling) : -
Life is about good and bad... However life is also about pleasure and happiness...  and in a way , the  comparison is as stark as good and bad...  completely opposite sides of a pole. Pleasure is when things happen as u planned it , when u KNOW that u have the power to accept or reject things at the same time, .... in one line when life is under ur control......
However, we know that it doesnt happen that way...  There are times when u realise that things are out of ur reach... sometimes, that u cant control urself or control certain aspects of ur life .... when u have to accept things...... however if u can turn that moment to ur advantage( for that just be urself and keep a general lazy relaxed attitude).. u realise happiness.. u realise that the walls that are around u are not made by "shouldnt " or " couldnt" but by ur own imagination. So if u can question those walls there abt their creator, abt their wanting to be around u, u can see the solution. Its will be the voice of the Divine... Happiness..... Simply Happiness ...... and the urge to taste the moment. U will be mad at that time... High on life... not sprinting around here and there... no no... but a healthy impatience inside ur heart ... slowly and surely... urging u to move forward and take life into ur own hands.

So while pleasure is high on indulgence, happiness is high on spirit. Both are Equally Necessary, pleasure is definitely necessary . In life.... always run after pleasure, thats how it should be...running with focus keeping ur mind clear abt ur goal. However, if just in case things go wrong remember it is the will of the divine to follow him... and his voice which will clearly make itself self heard.

" Life is not mountain but its like the sea; its not abt standing alone quietly to have peace, but its abt going with the ups and downs of the wave........ u can be up , and u cud be down.. but always be   you. Keep the focus"

all right i am checking...